By Melanie Chance

This month, I’m diving into Atomic Habits by James Clear — a book my son gave me a few years ago. At the time, I tucked it onto a shelf, thinking I would get around to it eventually. But life stayed busy, and the book stayed unread. Recently, I picked it back up, and now I can’t seem to put it down.

The way he gave it to me makes it even more meaningful. He had picked it up in an airport, paying more than he should have for it, and when he came home, he handed it to me and said, “Check this out. I thought after reading the back of it you would really enjoy it.” He knows me well — I am constantly trying to build a “better me” — so this couldn’t have been a more perfect gift.

Clear opens the book with a simple but striking idea: success doesn’t come from dramatic breakthroughs but from daily consistency. “Success is the product of daily habits — not once-in-a-lifetime transformations,” he writes. Even a 1 percent improvement each day compounds into something powerful over time.

In Chapter 2, Clear explains that habits aren’t just actions—they are tied to identity. It isn’t about setting a goal to run a marathon; it’s about becoming a runner. Each small habit is a vote for the kind of person you want to be. That perspective shifted how I thought about my own routines. Reading daily, for example, isn’t just about finishing a book. It’s about reinforcing the identity of being a reader.

Chapters 3 through 5 outline how habits form and how to shape them. Clear describes the habit loop — cue, craving, response, reward — and distills it into the Four Laws of Behavior Change: make it obvious, attractive, easy, and satisfying. He also introduces practical tools, such as the Habit Scorecard, to raise awareness of daily behaviors, and “habit stacking” to tie a new routine to an existing one. For instance, “After I pour my morning coffee, I will spend five minutes reading.”

These opening chapters reminded me that change doesn’t have to be overwhelming. It isn’t about reinventing yourself overnight but about stacking small actions until they add up to something meaningful. My son couldn’t have chosen a better book to nudge me toward a fresh perspective and growth.

Next week, I’ll continue with chapters 6 through 10, where Clear demonstrates how the environment influences behavior and how we can design spaces that facilitate the formation of good habits.